Have you ever walked into a room of a small group of people and felt a blast of negative energy? Everything looks normal enough but you have an uneasy feeling. Later you find that a couple among the group have been arguing. You were not aware of the reason at the time you entered but you felt the presence of negative energy well before you even knew what was happening.
Equally, you may have met somebody who affects you in a positive way. They are fun to be around. They tend to make anybody that comes in contact with them feel good. They have a way of emitting positive energy. We have seen that by adapting a lifestyle that leads to emotional and physiological balance you may have a positive influence on all others around you. If not, the opposite becomes true.
So how does this apply to a world where people have become accustomed to communicating with each other by distance, through smartphones and texting? If we can no longer sense the presence of the person we are speaking with, are we truly connected? Mark Zuckerberg wrote in 2017 for the first Facebook Community Summit, “For the past 10 years, our mission has been to make the world more open and connected. We will always work to give people a voice and help us stay connected, but now we will do even more. Today, we’re expanding our mission to set our course for the next 10 years. The idea for our new mission is: Bring the world closer together.”
This prompts the question, “Does a world connected by smartphones, web interfaces, false personas and anonymity constitute a world that is more open?”
Zuckerberg continues, “I always believed people are basically good. As I’ve traveled around, I’ve met all kinds of people from regular folks to heads of state, and I’ve found they almost all genuinely care about helping people.” Ironically, Zuckerberg opted to travel and meet these “regular folk” in person, when he could have quite easily struck up a conversation with them via their facebook page.
He goes on to say, “We all get meaning from our communities. Whether they’re churches, sports teams, or neighborhood groups, they give us the strength to expand our horizons and care about broader issues. Studies have proven the more connected we are, the happier we feel and the healthier we are. People who go to church are more likely to volunteer and give to charity — not just because they’re religious, but because they are part of a community.”
The groups and communities he is describing are those that meet up personally to share thoughts and ideas. Meetings where they share the experiences together in the same location as opposed to sharing it through a text message. They are sharing each other’s company. They generate energy and nurture others as others generate energy and nurture them.
Ironically, what some may see as a connected world, others see as a world of human’s becoming more distant and isolated. Communicating with others via technology removes that energy that we all share when we speak with someone face to face. You do not get a sense of a person’s energy through a text message or tweet. You are not able to read the body language. As human’s, we communicate with the tone of our voice, our body language, our eyes etc. We communicate on many different levels.
Some call this intuition yet others believe that we, as humans, create energy and have the ability to transmit that energy, be it negative or positive. Any thought, intention or action triggers an emotion which gives rise to this energy. Our thoughts and memories are essentially energy.
Energy released by an angry individual is shared with all people including plants, animals, and objects that he or she comes in contact with. This is how the negative or positive energy gets passed on from one person to another. You can feel that loss of energy yourself when you fall ill. Negative energy robs you from your vitality and wellbeing, while positive energy rejuvenates, and keeps you in a state of joy, happiness and good health.
Social media claims to be connecting people but to what extent? Isn’t it a purely superficial connection void of any real feeling? Social media has its place but nothing is a replacement for human contact. Human contact and energy seems to be the missing link in our newly “connected world.”